How to Know That You Are Shallow in Love and Relationships

Being shallow means not having any depth. In psychology, it is linked to the mind that cannot think deeper before taking any actions. Interestingly, this can have an influence over a person’s relationships also.  Millions of people are already going through it, but are you one of them too? Analyze yourself to know the answer by going through the points given below. They basically explain whether you are giving into shallow relationships.

• You want to be in a relationship just because your friend has one: This can be taken as indirect peer pressure. Sometimes when we see our friends happy with their boyfriends we can feel sad and lonely as singles. This is a natural psychological response. But this does not mean that we should let it force us to become desperate to be with just anyone. Desperateness actually leads us to look for love in all wrong places.

• You want to be in a relationship just for financial support: This is quite a dangerous decision. Money might allow you to live in a nice house and drive a good car, but it will never guarantee complete happiness in your relationship.

• You are with someone just because they look attractive, but you know that you two do not get along with each other: No explanation is needed here. You are basically with the person just so they stay as your arm candy at parties. In the house, the headlines news is that you two throw plates at each other. In short, you are unhappy with them, yet you do not break up.

• You are with the person because you want to have sex:  In this case, you will see that you have no emotional chemistry with the person you are dating. But you are still with them because you like having sex with them.